12 September 2009

weird

so i'm watching the devil wears prada where the boyfriend and girlfriend breaks up or whatever while i'm typing this...


  1. Our relationships are influenced by outside forces
    1. Cultural norms and media models
      1. Affect the ways we conduct our day to day interactions as well as the relational prototypes we use to evaluate relationships
    1. The involvement of family and friends
      1. Parents imposing family rules, close friends urging us to consider their feelings, coworkers giving us their opinions, even therapists, preachers and attorneys--all can have a say in the way we build relationships
    1. Economic and environmental conditions
      1. When these surroundings are stressful, the relationship suffers.
      2. Crossover - occurs when stress in the workplace affects the spouse at home
      3. It would appear that when things go wrong outside the relationship, relational partners have to work harder to maintain the relationship



and yes i do find it weird and a bit scary cuz i agree with it. the environment and my surroundings are not being nice to me and the struggle with money is definitely making it harder to maintain a relationship. i wish i had all the expenses possible to help give him anything he wants. he totally deserves it.

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