I seriously feel so much better choosing to "un-follow" some people who I feel like was abusing twitter. I've put up with it all summer so I feel like the fastest and simplest solution was to just stop having them spam my twitter updates with their nonsense and complaints about things that aren't even worth complaining over. There are those and then there are the youtube celebrities who I will never see or attempt to see. As much as I want to know what's up with them, I feel like it is just bringing my life down to just read that they're traveling everywhere. I think it's more fun to read about my 'celeb status' friends and comment them on their works/progress and actually share a conversation with them through twitter than to comment on a celeb and never get a response back lol.
So when my nights are spent not around the boyfriend or with the boyfriend, I am here on my laptop spent doing whatever I can think of before I can go to sleep. Also, my window is open and I can see what goes on around the common area of my apartment. It's been fun seeing and hearing all the noise and commotion that's been taking place on the University Center Lawn. Also, I get to see my residents stop by and say what's up as well as my campus friends and staff :)… not that they're mutually exclusive; I just think RAs deserve their own category :)
Anyway, by the time I publish this, it will be 3 months since my boyfriend and I got together. I know a lot of people will expect something sweet and sappy after that sentence but bear with me, as many of you have after reading through my horrendous rants.
So over the course of my college years, I've averaged about one boyfriend per year and that sounds about right. New year, new boyfriend kind of deal, you know…? I'm totally kidding but it's just funny how that came out to be. It doesn't sound too exciting as my boyfriend being single for 4 years but there are definitely stories to be told. Not that there are any real correlations but I feel that it's almost as if my progress with who I choose to be my boyfriend progresses with how I'm doing in my career choice. It sounds silly, I know… but it's a little funny how similar they are.
I would go into detail except that I might bring up bad memories and this will turn into a bitter post. My ultimate point is to show that I'm so much happier now and it's really with the PERSON that I chose to be with rather than how comfortable I feel when I'm with his family, friends, and his career status.
I think that my boyfriend's talents and ambitions are really shadowed by his ability to just be nice and be available to others. If you know him then you'll understand that he's just really fun and nice to have around. He's someone who's down for whatever but not stupid or immature to the point where it's uncomfortable for others. If you give him a chance as well as allow yourself to share your goals and ambitions, you'll see that he's someone that really is passionate with what he does in his free time and it really is all trying to get his career going unlike the majority of us who spends their free time doing nothing—like blogging when she could be doing more productive things (if you didn't just get that hint that I was talking about myself, you need to stop reading my blogs. Thanks.)
I really have to agree with him when he said "We are definitely one of those opposites, but not so opposite couples."
We definitely have different interests but our approach to what we love to do is the same.
I always want to just talk about us in my blogs but I honestly don't want my readers to get bored of what I have to say if it's all going to be me pouring my heart about him lol so anyway…
Likewise with twitter, I will also stop following and reading some postages on tumblr. I'm way more interested in reading postages that when I scroll through people's updates on tumblr or their blogs and all I see are photos… it really takes me away from what they have to say about their lives. For the most part, I think it's just cuz I follow a lot of high schoolers on tumblr and all I ever read or see on their pages are complaints about their parents, cussing at the people who hate them, or just these nice pair of shoes or bags that they really want… and then they go back to complaining about how their parents are so hard on them.
As opposed to me blogging about how other people annoy me, right? Lol, I know, I know. I'm simply stating the statistics. I love facebook because I read up on more interesting updates from the friends who are actually having lives whether it's them training to become professionals in any field—most of my friends are becoming doctors and going into med fields and it's just as much as those who I know who are trying to become dancers—and I'm real excited for it.
Lol I love making statuses on myspace or twitter that'll show my frustration with the younger generations:
I have just as many friends working to get their degrees as I do dancers who decide to not to go to school and are pursuing their love for dance through whatever opportunity they have; my point? WHAT ARE YOU doing with your lives and how are you showing it to others that you really want it?
If there aren't others who are out there who can recognize you with someone who's ambitious, outside of your family and immediate friends… why should strangers care to hear about who you are and what you're able to do?
I hope that was straightforward enough for me not to have to explain it but yeah…
I should probably make fliers or something to pass the time by… it's already almost 1AM and I have class at 8AM.
Oh! Maybe on my next post I can talk about how well it's going for me at the Hospital right now :) I have my own scrub top but I still need khaki pants… it's a real bummer, really, especially since I don't have the money to purchase long khaki pants right now.
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