how did u ever get over that whole thing with with the ex that got new gf to call u and stay friends. i have a similar situation :*(

it was really hard and it took me some time to get over it really because i told myself... at least it ended and if he continues to treat me like this and is ok with it then i don't need him in my life as a boyfriend.

whenever there's a breakup, my mentality changes real quickly now ever since that incident. i think that whatever the the guy and girl chooses to do afterwards is to the best of their ability to please themselves at that point and if he thinks that it's better for him to be with a girl who thinks calling the ex girlfriend is amusing, then they can both be with each other and be messed up in the heads together.

honestly, who calls their boyfriend's ex girlfriend and ask the ex girlfriend if she wants to kick her ass? that's stupid. if i broke up with a boyfriend and he goes for a stupid girl like that and thinks that she's better than me, then case closed, i don't even want to bother fighting for him to be considered in the same bracket as her.

questions, concerns, or have a topic in mind for me to rant about? :)