stemming off my tumblr post

even if you didn't mean for the message to be heard by others. even if it didn't mean to come off as hurtful to you but it's a complaint about me or the event that i invited you to nonetheless... maybe there should be a moment to reflect on your actions and think that... MAYBE... you shouldn't have said what you said.

the fact that i can spend houuurss on ends staying up and bearing with the 8+ hrs a night practices for more than a week at a time and looking forward to performing and knowing that someone can't just sit there and wait for a few 3-4 hours until i perform... kinda sucks. i didn't think of it like this until now.

maybe it's my bad again that i should've found out when we were performing at the event.

or maybe i should just stop inviting and MAYBE this is why i really ever try to be the one to come up with plans and invite people... cuz there's at least always ONE that complains about the place/time/event... so i'd rather just not even bother disappointing. if YOU want to go out, then YOU make the plans, please.

don't you hate making plans and hearing someone complain about it once you're there or going through with the plans?

i was an RA for 4 years, i know what it's like to invite a hall of 30-400 people to come out to something i've worked hard on and only like 10 people show up. this is why i never complain about plans with friends or whatever they choose as whatever we're doing. this is also why i really appreciate and respect all event planners and want to help where i can with any event/productions. for the people who put in the time to organize and facilitate the event... even though they're not on stage, they shouldn't go unrecognized or unacknowledged.

back to my point... sorry to those who think that i don't make time to plan things for us to hang out. i really don't know what to do or suggest that wouldn't disappoint you. even though people have said that they didn't mind and they just want to kick it or catch up... i always sense that boredom or urgency to want to do something more than just sitting there drinking boba.