What are your views on cheating?

not a huge fan but i'll admit i've had my hands dipped in those waters: me being cheated on, me cheating, and even a case when i was the other person =\

whatever the case may be, the relationship that's involved in messed up so it's just better to just drop everything and let it all go. not with the attitude that "the problem's just going to go away" but more like a "a mistake was made, let's just not get more involved and show anybody involved in this any more attention than they should -- potentially making matters worse."

being cheated on obviously doesn't feel too good but if i got the fact straight that he did cheat on me, then i'll just move on and know that being with that person will never happen again.

being the person who cheated, i know that i don't deserve either so i'm just going to let go of both even if one of them was someone who i REALLY wanted to be with or stay with. it's just never going to be the same and I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with that paranoia and baggage.

when i found out that i was THE OTHER PERSON, that was the worst =\ i am nobody to wreck anybody's relationship and i hate myself for trusting in this guy who i thought i could trust with the things i was going through at the time.

yeah not a huge fan of the issue. lucky for me, that's not even the issue that i worry about when it comes to a relationship. it's being able to catch up with my busy schedule and I'm blessed to also have an outgoing and boyfriend with an equally busy schedule :)

i don't think either of us would even have enough time in our days to cheat haha

questions, concerns, or have a topic in mind for me to rant about? :)