bottled up emotions

so i was thinking... people always have used the phrase "bottled up emotions" as a sign of negative feelings that could later be as catalysts for crazy arguments... as in holding in all of these angry feelings and bitterness thinking that you'd get over it and then one day you seeing yourself lashing out at the other person based on these hidden hostilities.

anyway, just wondering
if this could happen with the other extreme with having so much love and affection for someone but not wanting to share it. could this ultimately influence more positive feelings and create a sudden outburst of good surprises and all that caring and lovey dovey stuff? lol

maybe... that's why most couples have such extreme arguments cuz they share all that lovey dovey stuff and bottle the anger. Whereas there are a few couples who i know who do the opposite and point out each other's faults and talk about what bothers them so that they have all of these built up love for each other saved up and they know that if they were to do anything special that it's saved up and (BAM!) thrown in the other's face so it hits them hard haha.

idk that's just my hypothesis? lol people can argue that they'd rather balance it out and have a bunch of little things done for each other over time but honestly, what more can u ask for other than time and attention out of one's busy schedule for the other? =)

"if we ever get into an argument or if i ever wonder whether you have enough time for me, i want to at least remember this moment right here -- outside of all the stresses and worries. if it was just us, this is what it would be // we'll just see where this takes us" <3 Christmas 2010